Ela Dvornik, daughter of the late Dino Dvornik, recently shocked the public by declaring herself a “gold digger” who demands only the most expensive things from a man. “I really am a gold digger, a really expensive woman,” Ela openly admitted, listing what she expects from the ideal man: confidence, good humor, dark sarcasm, emotional intelligence, security, presence, ambition, empathy, authenticity, assertiveness, and passion. According to her, all these qualities cost as much as a session with a psychologist or psychiatrist, between 50 and 70 euros, and take a long time to develop.
Her followers flooded her with comments asking what she offers in return, to which Ela responded that she provides emotional intelligence, rationality, objectivity, loyalty, emotion, love, passion, lust, honesty, support, humor, motivation, validation, security, space for vulnerability, connection, action, affirmation of masculine roles, energy balance, financial stability, a safe base, submissiveness, and hedonism.
This statement sparked a storm of reactions on social media, as few expected such an open and unusual stance on relationship demands. Is Ela just honest or too demanding? Is she a gold digger or a woman who knows what she wants? The debate is wide open, and her honesty cannot be ignored.
