Parents, stop telling your kids “don’t hit” and expecting miracles! Therapist Shannon Bouchard shatters myths: kids under two only hear the last word, so when you say “don’t hit,” they hear “hit”! Instead of empty bans, offer them concrete alternatives like “hands for hugs” or “hands for clapping.” Ignoring or helpless pleading just sends the message that hitting is okay. If your child keeps hitting, it’s time to remove them from the situation and show that it’s not acceptable. And no, it’s not easy, but if you keep using the same old phrases, don’t expect a different result! Come on, comment – have you been stuck in this pointless loop or do you have a genius trick? Share your parenting battles and wins!
