When One Glass of Wine Becomes a Death Signal: Simon’s Battle with Melanoma
Imagine drinking just one glass of wine and instantly feeling drunk. No, it’s not a sign you’re weak to alcohol, but the first alarm of a deadly cancer! Simon Bowler, a 50-year-old tennis coach from Hertfordshire, experienced exactly that. His story is a real drama that will make you think twice before you next sip wine or ignore strange symptoms.
The First Signs Nobody Took Seriously
In October, Simon noticed he felt drunk after just one glass of red wine, even though he used to drink a whole bottle with no effect. Soon, a lump appeared on his neck, which doctors initially called a harmless cyst. But dizziness, blurred vision, and insomnia didn’t stop. When he returned to the doctor, the shocking diagnosis came — malignant melanoma, the deadliest form of skin cancer, which had already spread throughout his body and brain.
Cancer That Doesn’t Choose Age or Place
Melanoma isn’t just an old person’s disease. Studies from the US and UK show a rapid rise in cases among people under 50 — a 7% increase in the last decade among those aged 25 to 49. This cancer can appear not only on the skin but also on the scalp, nails, mouth, palms, and soles. UV and UVB rays, from the sun or tanning beds, are the main culprits.
A Tough Fight and Immunotherapy Side Effects
Simon underwent surgery to remove secondary tumors, followed by a year of immunotherapy and regular scans. Still, the cancer spread to his brain. A new round of immunotherapy caused severe side effects — loss of bowel function, nerve damage in his hands and feet, feeling like he was hit by a truck. His right hand barely holds the racket, and his legs are unstable. Yet, he refuses to give up.
Emotional Breakdown and a New Mission
Returning home was emotionally exhausting — he cried for days, feeling he lost parts of himself. But now, he wants to help young players, teaching them what resilience means. He started a GoFundMe campaign and raised over €8,000 to start a tennis equipment business, planning to donate part of the proceeds to mental health organizations.
What Can We Learn?
Melanoma is dangerous and sneaky. Don’t ignore unusual symptoms, even if they seem harmless. Use high SPF sunscreen, wear protective clothing, and avoid excessive sun exposure, especially for children. Simon’s story is a warning and a call to action — cancer can appear in the most unexpected places and times.
Ever had a weird symptom you ignored? Or know someone who fought melanoma? Share your stories — maybe your experience could save a life!
